And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great.
Subject: The Tongue
When God allows Satan to attack Job personally, it was not a pretty sight. When his three friends approached from a distance they didn't even recognize him. The boils he had (from head to toe) are so bad that it has disfigured his body. His capacity to do anything has been taken away and he sits on the ground in pain and suffering. What do you say to someone in this situation? That will be the central theme of the book: What do you say to someone who is in physical pain due to a health alignment suddenly attacking him? At first these three friends have nothing to say. As we study the book we realize that was probably their best choice. Their silence doesn't last. They soon start talking and so miss the point of what is really happening with Job, that by the end of the book they are rebuked by a fourth friend we didn't know was even present. The tongue is a powerful tool at the disposal of every person. You can use it for good or you can use it for bad. These three men attempt to "help" Job. However, their words are more swords than salve. Note what Solomon would say about the tongue:
Proverbs 18:21 (ESV Strong's)
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.
When we come across someone who is in distress and struggling with some affliction of life we ought to remember Job's friends and Solomon's wisdom. We have the opportunity to bring life or death; we have the opportunity to bring healing:
Proverbs 12:18 (ESV Strong's)
There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Job's friends should have kept their tongues from becoming sword thrusts, and rather bring healing.