Genesis 29:15-20 (ESV)
Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my kinsman, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” Now Laban had two daughters. The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. Leah’s eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. Jacob loved Rachel. And he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me.” So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.
The story of Jacob and Laban is legendary to those who diligently study God’s Word. Laban cheated Jacob. Jacob cheated Laban. They both had little respect for each other. In the above story they are negotiating for Jacob to have Rachel, Laban’s second daughter, in marriage. They agreed to a price and time and then, in the chapters that follow, Laban cheats Jacob. But the most important line in the above text was Jacob’s attitude about having to wait to marry Rachel. His love for Rachel made the seven year wait, seem as mere moments. Love does that. Love will allow you to even be cheated about something. This is what love does. It looks past an offense. Notice how Solomon said it:
Proverbs 19:11 (ESV)
Good sense makes one slow to anger,
and it is his glory to overlook an offense.
In our Christian walk we are to do the same thing with our brother and sister in Christ. We are to overlook their offense and love them, despite how they may have injured us. That is what love does. It is easy to love those who love you. It is hard to love those who don’t love you. We are to love so sacrificially that even when someone is trying to hurt us it will feel like but a moment.