Obadiah 1:13-14 (ESV)
Do not enter the gate of my people
in the day of their calamity;
do not gloat over his disaster
in the day of his calamity;
do not loot his wealth
in the day of his calamity.
Do not stand at the crossroads
to cut off his fugitives;
do not hand over his survivors
in the day of distress.
It is very easy to gloat and rejoice over the unfortunate situation of our enemy. When our friends have a hard day, we are there to support. When our enemy has a hard day, we often rejoice. That is the story behind Obadiah. The Edomites (descendants of Esau) rejoiced when Israel fell to the Babylonians. When Israel was in captivity to them, anyone who escaped was captured by the Edomites and returned to Babylon. Obadiah is sent to call out that bad behavior. Solomon said it this way in the book of Proverbs:
Proverbs 24:17-18 (ESV)
Do not rejoice when your enemy falls,
and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles,
lest the LORD see it and be displeased,
and turn away his anger from him.
God does not want us to gloat, rejoice or mock when our enemy has a bad situation. Edom was supposed to be the brother of Jacob (Israel). But out of jealousy for God giving Jacob the first-born birth-right. Edom was upset at God’s selection of Jacob (Israel) over them. Jealousy is a bad motivation.
Proverbs 27:4 (ESV)
Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming,
but who can stand before jealousy?
Proverbs 6:34 (ESV)
For jealousy makes a man furious,
and he will not spare when he takes revenge.
James 3:14 (ESV)
But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth.